Off the Cuff with Karen
Shine Forward with Resilience
Cancer Free Part 2: I Didn’t Get Here Alone
I may be the one who received the cancer free news, but I did not get here alone. The gift of this journey has been realizing that the people who showed up with faith, encouragement, laughter, meals, and real-life support were some of the best medicine I could receive. This is the story of how I learned to let people help, lean into hope, and keep Shining Forward.
Cancer Free Part 1: And The Results Are In...
The MyChart alert came through after my double mastectomy, and for a moment, I could not bring myself to open it. What happened next was a lesson in fear, faith, surrender, science, and the people who help us keep going.
From Microphones to Mastectomies
Days before my double mastectomy, I found myself standing on a stage holding a microphone in front of a community of women I truly admire. In this moment I was reminded me that I am still me. Not just a patient. Not just a diagnosis. This is the story of Magical May, Mic Drop Live, and the unexpected reminder I needed before surgery. Comparison doesn’t stand a chance in the face of meaningful connection!
Life Is Getting Messy Again
There is something ridiculously satisfying about power washing. Watching dark, mucky brick transform into something clean and new feels invigorating. Motivating. Cancer may have slowed me down, but it also changed the way I see growth, identity, scars, and the messy beauty of becoming someone new on the other side.
Two Weeks, Four Rounds, and a Wig Named ??
Two weeks, four rounds of chemo, and a whole lot of real life in between. This update shares what it actually feels like, what I’m learning, and yes… my wig finally has a name. You’ll have to read to find out.
Grateful? Cancer Will Redefine That.
Today my gratitude list included pizza, Kleenex, and a really good trip to the bathroom.
Cancer will do that to a person.
While hiking after my third round of chemo, I started noticing the things that still felt good, still felt normal, still felt like life.
Turns out gratitude gets very real when life gets really hard.
The Pity Party
Chemo 3, Day 5 hit differently. Bone pain, anger, and a full-blown pity party forced me to confront what faith really looks like when you don’t feel strong.
Do I Look Like I Have Cancer?
She looks healthy. She looks happy. But she is in the middle of chemotherapy for stage 2 HER2 breast cancer. A reflection on invisible illness, faith, and why kindness matters more than we know.
3 Lessons I Learned From Chemo (and Life)
Greetings from chemo 2, day 8. While this season includes cancer, what it’s teaching me reaches far beyond treatment side effects and infusion chairs. These are three lessons about paying attention, learning to receive, and finding clarity in hard seasons—lessons that belong to all of us.
Chemo Day 10: Perspective, Pepcid, and Practicing Faith
Ten days into chemo and already seeing the world differently. Gratitude, faith, Pepcid AC, and finding humor and hope during cancer treatment.
What Are You Willing to Do? Finding Your Dream Adjacent Path
Feeling stuck between your calling and your cash flow? You’re not alone. If the dream feels heavy, the burnout is real, or the bills are stacking up, it may be time to ask a bold question: What are you willing to do? Let’s talk about dream-adjacent options that can help you stay aligned, energized, and moving in a bright direction.
Friends in Far Away Places
From pub chats to cave swims, this post is all about the unexpected connections we made across the globe. It’s proof that belonging isn’t tied to location—it’s about heart, humor, and a willingness to say hi.
Pressure vs. Presence: What’s Leading Your Life Right Now?
Pressure can keep us stuck in survival mode. But presence is where clarity, peace, and purpose begin. This honest reflection explores burnout recovery, resilience, and how to move forward, one intentional step at a time.
Family Vacation Survival Guide: 7 Secrets to Success and Sanity
Vacation season is here, and if you're traveling with family, you’re not just packing bags… you’re packing personalities. From solo strolls by Big Ben to safe words that saved our sanity, I’m sharing 7 real-world strategies for navigating family travel with more grace, fewer meltdowns, and a whole lot of honest moments. Whether you’re a people-pleaser, a planner, or somewhere in between, this one’s for you.
When the Resilience Coach Hits a Wall
Sometimes even the most resilient among us get stuck. This is what it looks like when the speaker who helps others power through hits her own wall—and finds her way back to hope.
Finding Perspective Among the Headstones
Most people don’t think of a cemetery as a place to find peace, joy, or clarity. But for Karen, it’s become sacred ground filled with memories, grief, and unexpected moments of grace. In this deeply personal reflection, Karen shares how walking among the headstones with her dogs has shaped her perspective, softened her sorrow, and reminded her that even in loss, life keeps moving.
Strong Water: A Mother’s Day Reflection
Mother’s Day looks different when your mom is no longer here. In this heartfelt reflection, I explore the legacy my mother left behind—the faith, humor, and grit that still shape me—and why the Hebrew word for mother, meaning strong water, couldn’t be more fitting. Whether you’re mothering people, pets, or communities, this one’s for you.
When the Day Derails: A Lesson in Grace, Guilt, and Getting Back Up
In this candid and relatable post, Karen shares how a simple nap turned into a spiral of guilt after she missed an important meeting. Through vulnerability and reflection, she explores how easy it is to let shame define our day—and how to reclaim our power through grace, perspective, and purpose. With honesty and hope, she encourages readers to stop tying their worth to productivity and instead take one small, intentional step in the bright direction.
What Accountability Really Looks Like
This post started as a walk-and-talk voice note—raw, real, and totally unfiltered. I’m sharing what accountability really looks like for me these days: not hustle culture, not guilt trips, but honest alignment with what matters most. From missed TEDx deadlines to rewriting what it means to follow through, this is a story about showing up with grace, intention, and a whole lot of self-awareness. If you’ve ever struggled to “do the thing,” I hope this gives you permission to start messy and keep going anyway.
Talkabetes: A Life-Long Diagnosis I’ve Learned to Love
As a kid, my report cards were filled with notes like “Talks too much” and “Needs self-control.” Now? I call it Talkabetes.What used to get me sent to the principal’s office has become my superpower—fueling connection, storytelling, and even my career. In this post, I’m sharing how I turned a lifelong “flaw” into a calling, why our voices matter more than ever, and how humor, honesty, and heart can light the way forward.

